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Nebulae in Aurigae

Rich in star clusters and nebulae, the ancient constellation of the Charioteer (Auriga) rides high in northern winter night skies. Composed from narrow and broadband filter data and spanning nearly 8 Full Moons (4 degrees) on the sky, this deep telescopic view shows off some of Auriga’s celestial bounty. The field includes emission region IC 405 (top left) about 1,500 light-years distant. Also known as the Flaming Star Nebula, its red, convoluted clouds of glowing hydrogen gas are energized by hot O-type star AE Aurigae. IC 410 (top right) is significantly more distant, some 12,000 light-years away. The star forming region is famous for its embedded young star cluster, NGC 1893, and tadpole-shaped clouds of dust and gas. IC 417 and NGC 1931 at the lower right, the Spider and the Fly, are also young star clusters embedded in natal clouds that lie far beyond IC 405. Star cluster NGC 1907 is near the bottom edge of the frame, just right of center. The crowded field of view looks along the plane of our Milky Way galaxy, near the direction of the galactic anticenter. via NASA http://ift.tt/1OC4s0o

Thoughts of Adedapo Adeniran.

When you get to a level where you are analyzing your emotions, observing your behaviours, effectively filtering out baloney, maintaining a tentative stance on virtually everything, then you are getting dangerously close to self mastery.

What makes you sad or angry is the picture in your head of how it is “supposed” to be. Once you change your way of looking at it and change from looking at what is supposed to be, to looking at what it is actually then you live an easier life. I am so loving the way I see things now.

I found inner peace within myself when I stopped caring too much about other people’s opinions. You should learn to filter out the sentiments and prejudice in the voices you hear, and only let the truth guide your ways.

School/university is a place where we are all programmed to think only the best students succeed in life.

Sometimes one doesn’t need cannabis sativa to feel high,just listen to some brain wave entrainment symphonies, mind calming stuff. Focus enhancement. Motivation.

Hardly am I bored. But now I am damn bored. I wish I was born in the era where most things was natural, tree houses,bushes,trees,animals flourishing, jungle life. That era must have been amazing,no complications,no technology that takes control of ones life,less sickness,freedom,ecstasy.

When you are doing something And you feel tensed,Then you are being who you think you should be,But when you are doing something And you feel relaxed Then you are being yourself.

People would hate you once they stop getting that “thing” that made them love you. Don’t be surprised if someone you thought loved you started hating you.

Catch up or get left behind,this world is moving faster than you think.

The truth isn’t always palatable,That’s why we have myths,personal myths,general myths,some myths are believed by the majority,some people have their own personal myth that is real to them.

Mistakes are never problems when you make them,they are problems when you dont learn from them.

Don’t try to argue logically with a woman who thinks you are against her,she can keep asserting that black is white ,you would almost ponder If black is truly white.

If life shows you pepper,use it for pepper soup,If life throws you to the wolves, lead the pack. No matter how life treats you what matters is how you turn the situation around for your own benefit.
Keep the spirit alive!

A rose by any other name would smell just as sweet (as a rose)-Shakespeare
In other words,no matter what people may call you,it will have zero effect on your intrinsic/essential characteristics.

Dont be persuaded by the things that are apparent to u. The most important things are not usually perceived easily. Let Ur instinct take charge,bcos the things that u see are as a result of the things dat are not seen.

Dont be too confident when someone tells you they like/love you,and dont lose hope when someone doesnt really like you. The real question is:until when? Just like seasons,people change,so does their feeling. The person you are chasing now, will end up chasing you when they start seeing good things in you.

No matter what life throws at you,or the problems you are facing,the single most important thing is if you see them as ‘problem/s’ in the actual sense of it.

Whatever you believe becomes your reality. Its funny how we live in a world created in our minds. If am wrong,then the placebo effect wouldnt be possible.

Trying to modify yourself into making people like you,wont work,it would only irritate them,when they discover you have been fake.

Knowledge without experience is like having a compass without a map. You know you are going in the right direction but you dont know what you are heading for.

They are basically two kinds of people on earth- 1)Thermometers- these are people who are controlled by their external environments,they are like the chameleons that changes colour to blend with their environment.
2)Thermostats- these are people who determine and regulate how they want their external environment to be like,they set the pace,they lead the path,they flow against the tide,these are the set of people that no longer see the world the way they are conditioned to be but the way they want the world to be. Learn to be a thermostat and not a thermometer.

If everyone could see what is in the mind of everyone he/she associates with,it’s certain there would be no friendship,no love,no pope,no monks,no pastors,no marriages,everyone would be considered the same,because thats the truth about everyone.The heart of a man is like a can of worm,a pandora box,calm on the outside,filthy on the inside.‪

You think you see the world as it is when you actually see the world as you are conditioned to be,because nothing in life has meaning except that which you give to it-(the best saying have heard so far) ‪

When a bird is alive,it eats ants but when it dies,ants eat it.A tree makes a million matches but a single match burns down a million trees. Be very careful with the way you treat others because you dont know how time and circumstances might change everything for you in the nearest future,those two things are very powerful.

If the way you see life isnt making life any better for you,throw that principle of yours into the trash can and try seeing through the eyes of someone that has seen more than you.Life is not a one way traffic cos there are many paths to a bus stop,who knows if you are following the most stressful path?

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In the Center of Spiral Galaxy NGC 3521

This huge swirling mass of stars, gas, and dust occurs near the center of a nearby spiral galaxy. Gorgeous spiral NGC 3521 is a mere 35 million light-years distant, toward the constellation Leo. Spanning some 50,000 light-years, its central region is shown in this dramatic image, constructed from data from the Hubble Space Telescope. The close-up view highlights this galaxy’s characteristic multiple, patchy, irregular spiral arms laced with dust and clusters of young, blue stars. In contrast, many other spirals exhibit grand, sweeping arms. A relatively bright galaxy in planet Earth’s sky, NGC 3521 is easily visible in small telescopes, but often overlooked by amateur imagers in favor of other Leo spiral galaxies, like M65 and M66. via NASA http://ift.tt/1YDaWkq

You need to cry sometimes.

“Sometimes you cry not because you are weak, its because you have been strong for too long”. Crying has a wonderful way of making someone less tensed, it has a way of letting out the steam and the burden you have been carrying for long. Even a doctor told me that crying has a positive effect on the memory, he said whenever he enters an exam room and doesn’t remember a thing, he then starts crying and everything he read starts popping up.

Crying makes you feel better, it makes you relaxed. It makes things easier, its an emotional outlet. No one is too big to cry, those who feel crying is for babies end up causing more harm to themselves, they end up breaking down emotionally because they have been building up emotional tension in themselves.

There is a reason why the urge to cry is there. It’s because our brain knows that crying has a positive effect on us, and that’s exactly what we need at that moment, to cry!!!! And of course we sometimes need someone to talk to, someone to vent at. Someone to tell about our problems, just a listening ear to show that at least someone cares about our problem even if they have no idea how to solve it, the mere fact that they listened goes a very long way in solving our problems.

Without being judgemental, a listening ear is the best friend anyone can have on earth. Most times our problem, unknown to us, is that it seems no one is noticing us, it seems no one cares about us, we tend to wonder why we have that terrible feeling. Unknown to us, what we ultimately need is attention. And to feel loved and accepted, we need that too very much.

What do we do about this? I know a great site that one can get a non judgemental listening hear. I have been there before and it’s a really pleasing experience. I am not trying to advertise any site, because the site is pretty popular on its own already anyway. 7cupsoftea.com that’s the site, you can chat anonymously with any listener of your choice without the fear of being judged. You can say anything on your mind, vent all you want and no one is going to judge you. They(listeners) have been trained not to judge and not to give their own opinions. You are pretty safe from other people’s opinion on the site. And the good part of it is that it’s absolutely free!! Unless you want to hire a professional psychologist/psychotherapist on the site, then you have to pay for their service. The listeners are normal people like everyone and they are pretty good at listening. All the best.
Stay positive.

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How astrology works and why I stopped believing it.

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You only have control over yourself not others.

Just take a look at the quote in the picture above. It says it all. One can not simply expect another person to be good just because you are good. You are a caring, respective and non judgemental person doesn’t mean another person will be caring, respectful and non judgemental. You only have full control of yourself and a choice to either accept others the way they are or simply walk away.

Also, you can’t always expect to be paid back in good return for the good things you have done to someone, someone else might do that. Some people would pay you badly for the good you have done to them, that’s just life for you. It doesn’t mean you should hate them, even if you hate them it doesn’t change anything. They will still be the “bad” person they are. You can’t jeopardize your own personality because of another person, don’t turn bad because someone else was bad to you, so as to avoid being bad to good people. Karma has a way of f***ing bad people up and rewarding good people for their good deeds.

Stay positive and remain who you are.

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When Nigerian men text “I love you” to their wives

A group of Nigerian men gathered at a church conference on how to live in a loving relationship with their wives. The men were asked, “How many of you love your wife ?” All the men raised their hands. Then they were asked, “When was the last time you told your wife you love her ?” Some men answered today, some yesterday, majority didn’t remember. The men were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective wives: I love you, sweetheart…
Then the men were told to exchange their phones so one can read the other wife’s reply to the love message.
Here are some of the replies:
1. Have you impregnated someone again
2. That was then, not now
3. You wan borrow money abi?
4. What did you do again? I won’t forgive you this time.
5. Meaning?
6. Is that a new song?
7. Am I dreaming?
8. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, you will die today!
9. U dis man!! I asked you to stop drinking.
10. Abeg na who be this?

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When you feel all hope is gone.

When you feel all hope is gone, when you feel there is no point in trying again because you are so sure of failing, think again. The fact still remains, no one has it all rosy in life, no matter the facade they keep showing to the world that they got it all working out for them. Even the rich cry. Everyone has his or her own troubles that they think of. You are not alone in whatever it is you are facing.

It might seem like you are the only one who goes through what you are going through, you might feel no one else carries such a heavy burden as you do. You might feel alone in this small world. Everyone feel that way once in a while and some maybe more often than others, the truth still remains, you are never alone.

Let’s think for a minute, during your conception, over 50 million sperms were on a dangerous race to a single egg miles away in a very caustic environment, many sperms got killed due to acidity, many got eaten by defenders of the body, many got lost and went offtrack, many got to the egg but couldn’t find their way in because you were there already. Chances of you being exactly the way you are right now, if your conception should start again is 1 in a billion. That shows how unique you are.

It’s perfectly normal to feel hopeless, probably once in a while, because we are all humans with emotions. It’s a sign that we all need something. No one has it all, no one can ever get completely satisfied with everything. It’s impossible. So why bother, you can just take it as one of those things everybody would pass through in life.

In fact you should be bothered if you don’t feel any negative emotion, there is a medical condition called alexithymia which is an inability to recognize one’s emotion. You can look it up online, you sure don’t want to experience this. Life would have lesser meaning if we don’t experience all these emotions (both good and bad emotions), they are part of the things that spice up life. Life would sure be boring if you have it all working out smoothly for you. You would definitely look for meanings if you are always happy.

When next you start feeling down, don’t force yourself out of it, just let it pass through you naturally, and know that it’s just one of those things and its perfectly normal.
#Peace

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Positive mind vs Negative mind vs Realistic mind?

I was going through a blog post here where a fellow blogger “ElWhizard” tried to argue for a negative mind being the surest way to success in life. In his expose, he describes the seeming advantages of a negative mind, he said a negative person always expect the worst so he tries all his possible best not to make them happen, he also said being negative has been scientifically proven to improve the memory and sharpen mental accuracy, where ever he got that from.

Now let me start by telling you a story about three elephants. Three elephants were tied with very weak ropes compared to their sizes and I wondered why they didn’t break lose from the ropes; so I asked the man sitting beside the elephants how he happen to hold the three elephants down. He explained that ever since they were born, they have always been unable to get lose from the ropes, and now that they are very big they still believe they cannot be lose from the ropes(negative thinking).

The human mind is a very power thing. The things we do in this life are ultimately determined by how we think and what we believe in. Whatever we believe we can do, are things we would eventually do and whatever we think we cannot do are the things we would keep on failing to do. Why is this so?

Let’s probe a little deeper. The human mind consist of the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious mind is the one we are aware of and are capable of controlling to a large extent, while the subconscious mind is the one we aren’t aware of and cannot easily control. The conscious mind keeps on feeding the subconscious mind, while the subconscious mind controls our outlook of life and the way we approach things. Naturally if a negative mind thinks what he is about to start won’t ever work out, he won’t even bother to try because he is so sure it won’t work out, unlike what Whizard said. If someone is truly negative and still decides to do that same thing he thinks won’t work out fine, then trust me he isn’t fully a negative person. It means he still has the belief no matter how little, that it just might work out, if not he wouldn’t bother himself trying. Whizard also said that a negative mind would try all his possible best to make sure negative outcomes don’t come to pass, how does that match? If you are a negative person, you are 100% sure that negative outcomes will surely happen no matter what you do, so why would you try work against something that is 100% sure to happen? It just doesn’t match! For you to try to prevent it, it definitely means you aren’t totally a negative person.

Now let’s get to a third category of people I would like to talk about, the realist. This are the people that don’t give themselves false hopes with extra positivity up to the point of being deluded and they also don’t bring themselves down with extra negativity up to be point of being handicapped. They balance those two things. They have it in mind that bad things could happen, and if it happens they already have plan B, at the same time they give themselves reassurance that if more effort is put into it, its very much likely to turn out well.

You know reassurance has a way of pushing someone forward, because of the bright light at the end of the tunnel. This is what positive thinking does, you know that it will turn out well if you keep it up, so you keep on taking long strides until the day you get there.

I believe in balance. Too much of anything most times isn’t good. Let’s be a realist, someone who is more in touch with reality, an extreme pessimist and an extreme optimist are never always in touch with reality. They both get disappointed once in a while when things don’t go the way they are sure it would go. But a realist is never disappointed because he realises life isn’t a bed of roses and he always accept everything life throws at him with a straight face because he knows that’s the essence of life, good and bad. #peace
 

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Ego hurting, non socializing and rage.

We humans are social by nature but not everyone gets the chance to socialize well with others. That’s why we find ourselves in awkward social situations with other humans because of non socializing with other humans.

We humans are also hierarchical in nature. We tend to build social groups among ourselves and have this idea of who is better than who in our minds.

Whenever we feel slighted when someone of lower social group steps on our shoe, we burst into a fist of rage. This is a power show, and to prove who is of higher social group. What is happening here is that, the person in anger is saying “hey, look here, I am up here while you are down there, you don’t have the power to do that, I will show you who the boss is here.”

Often time, its because we don’t socialize well enough with this other person that we overreact to any slight thing they do. If assuming we have been social with them, the reaction won’t be that much, we might not even get angry because by then they would have been in the same social group with us, sort of.

Ego also plays a lot of role. Some people have this big ego, and feel they have to command respect from everyone. It could be their position among the group, being the feeder of the ego that keeps growing and growing. Ego can’t be totally removed from someone but it can definitely be trained. So it doesn’t seem like anyone is hurting their ego.

How is this possible? I wrote an article on the psychological workings of the emotion called anger in this article once you read it, you would have a better understanding of yourself and better control yourself in case of next time.

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The rich giving to the poor.

I was watching a social experiment video on YouTube that was trying to demonstrate the attitude of rich men towards the poor.

Here was what happened in the video: a poorly dressed man was sent to a rich man standing by to ask for money to buy food, telling the man he hasn’t eaten for weeks, but the man refused to give him, with the excuse that he doesn’t have any money to spare. Later a richly dressed man was sent to the same rich man standing to ask for money, that he wasn’t with his wallet, the rich man standing offered this other richly dressed man $20 immediately, asking him to keep the change. Shocked?

Don’t be shocked. That is the reality of life. Most times people tend to be more open, friendly and generous to people of their own class because they believe they are one family sort of, and they are likely to get help from each other in the future, why would a rich man want to give to a poor man when he knows he can never get any sort of help from the poor man, he reasoned. Also, no one gets to know whether he helped the poor man or not, so there is no way he is ever going to be reciprocated back for the giving, he reasoned again. This poor man is poor most likely because he is lazy and he wants to keep on begging instead of trying to help himself out of his poverty, if I give him this money he will still continue to beg and nothing would change, so why give him then? He reasoned all again. But when faced with a fellow classy/wealthy man, asking for money, this man isn’t poor and he is probably just stranded, I can be in his situation and I understand how embarrassed he is right now to be begging, let me give him something, he reasoned. This man could be my boss in the future, or we could meet somewhere else in the future where I would need his favour/help, let me help him out now. Giving to someone as rich or even richer than I am would put me in a good light with the person and with any other person that later finds out that I helped this man, he reasoned again.

Everything all boils down to benefits and returns. That’s the sad reality of life, there are very few things we do in this life that isn’t tied to benefits or some sort of gains. The same thing applies in this situation. It’s not like the rich are wicked or greedy, but they just do not see the benefit of giving to the poor other than feeling good about yourself that you have helped a poor man. And not everyone feels good for giving, some even feel stupid or duped.

Now, just before you misinterpret me, I am not in support of the rich not giving to the poor, what I am doing now is looking at things from the perspective of a rich man, we have to walk a mile in someone’s shoes before judging them. That’s why I didn’t just judge them straightaway, and it seems as if I am supporting this “greedy” attitude towards the poor simply because I don’t want to be judgemental about the rich.

You can’t really blame them though, the money they got was from hard work and careful planning on how and where they invest their money into, so they sort of bring the same principle into giving to the poor, is giving to the poor a fruitful investment? In order for the rich to start giving willingly to the poor they have to realize that giving to the poor shouldn’t be looked at as though it was an investment. They should look at it as their own way of contributing to the society positively. Look at it as being human, we are one family, whether rich or poor, because we are all humans. By helping another person, you are indirectly helping yourself, because we are in a universe where every action produces an equal and opposite reaction. One good turn deserves another. Sometimes you just don’t need a good reason to do some things. Sometimes you just have to do them because you are human.

Well, what can I do? I know for sure I will help those in need when I get to the top because I know what it feels like to lack.

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My love, my diamond

I gave love another chance, this was what I came up with.

Joy comes in the morning they say, you are my morning I say.
You are the sun in the cold windy darkness of my heart.
You are the stream of hope in the hot dry desert of my head.
A light at the end of the dark tunnel keeps me going, you are the light at that end.
You are the missing piece in my search for the meaning of life. What took you so long?
Where have you been while I have been keeping crystals for diamonds, I just found a real diamond, you.
As clear as a diamond so is your heart. As hard as a diamond so is Ur stubbornness.
As rare as a diamond, so is Ur type.
As beautiful as a diamond, so are you. As expensive as a diamond, so is your value.
As glittering as a diamond, so is your nature.
You illuminate my world like a diamond in the void sky.
I would clean my treasure crest of all the crystals for I have find a true diamond.
This poem might be beautifully written , but I assure you they aren’t as beautiful as I really want to express.
This is coming from the deepest part of my heart

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True confidence at its peak.

You would recognize a confident man from afar when you see him. From the way he walks to the way he relates with others, confidence exudes from him. A confident man never compares himself to another person because he realises everyone is unique in his or her own way and there really is no standard for comparison.

A confident man knows the importance of loving himself because he knows how short life is and he has to lead a positive life. He leaves no room for self pity nor self hatred. He accept himself however he may be.

A confident man doesn’t seek conformity nor fitting in. He would rather bring out the best in himself and make sure he is the best of himself and not making himself someone else. He knows his aspirations and his deep inner desires, he pursues his dreams with so much certainty and determination, letting no distraction sway him for too long and getting back on track after every shortcoming, without self pity.

A confident man doesn’t chase after the wind, he realizes that no one is perfect and everyone is capable of making mistakes. He isn’t hard on himself and he forgives himself for things he failed to do or things he did. He realizes that no one has really figured it all out and everyone is just trying his or her best to be the best they can be.

A confident man doesn’t hold grudges for the same reason that no one is perfect. He realize that disappointments are an essential part of life and things won’t always go the way he want them to. So he accepts and forgives those who have offended him. How interesting do you think life would be if everything goes just the way we want them to? No excitement, no energy, no roughness , just smooth and streamlined life . Lol, you guessed right!!! Boring life!!!!

A confident man does good to people,  even to those who don’t really deserve it, because he knows evil never solves evil. He is liberal and open to everyone. He doesn’t discriminate and he tries to learn something from everyone , no matter how little the person may appear to be to him.

A confident man has a good heart and doesn’t expect any favour in return for his goodness. He realizes that not everyone would have a good heart as his, and so he just be who is he, that is, being a person with a good heart.

A confident man knows the importance of gratitude for everything he gets in life. He realizes that if he isn’t happy for whatever he has, it wouldn’t really change anything unless he is positive in his thinking.

A confident man would always take the first step even though it seems like a million steps ahead of him, he knows for sure that he would get there through each and every step he takes.

Don’t give up. Keep striding forward. Trust me , you would get there one day. Sooner than you think.

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Complaining about life.

I expect nothing from anyone, I accept everything I get from life and change it for better. When life throws me pepper i make pepper soup, when life throws me shit i make manure, when life throws me urine  i make therapy,when life throws me hardship and struggles I make strength, when life throws me fire i make warmth,  No longer do I need to complain about anything, cos life is so freaking short. A lot of times do we miss out on the good things of life because we were preoccupied by the negatives , life isn’t all rosy for anyone no matter the facade of a rosy life. Live your life well and positively. #ToWhomItMayConcern

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If animals could talk.

What a world it would be if animals could talk. Imagine if your dog could talk, what would you instruct it to do? Imagine if you could make your dog spy on your secret crush innocently without any suspicion?

I am quite sure human to animal bonds would be more rampant and stronger than human to human relationships because those animals lead such a simple and straightforward life. They have very little complications and are very easy to understand even when they don’t talk, talk more of when they start talking and are able to express their simplicity and honesty. Lots of human to human relationships would be broken when your pet animals tell you what they do or say behind your back.

There would be very little need for human companionship when you can talk all day with your pet without any restrictions what so ever.  Some people might not even bother to get married again, after all they can never be bored nor lonely when they are surrounding by those little cute animals that can even talk.

Animal rights would be rampant and there would be very little distinction between humans and animals, people would be less eager to kill animals for food because of the emotions they arouse when they cry and speak up for mercy.

Lol, I know my imagination is quite funny, but think about how different things would be if animals could talk. Life would actually be more fun and there would be more unity among all animals. Unrelated animals would be able to talk to themselves. We would be able to bargain with pests to stop them from destroying things and bribing them. Lmao.

Humans would definitely fall deeply in love with these animals , and for sure these animals have no morals or any sense of right and wrong, this could create some discomfort among humans. Animals abusing humans, would that be considered as an abuse according to law? Could those animals commit crimes and be arrested for it? Would they be attending religious gathering? Could they go into politics?

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How to free up your external memory on Android.

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Are opinions valuable?

Are opinions valuable?

I have always thought about writing on this, so here we go.

We live in a world where we get all sort of opinions about people, things and ourselves. Virtually everything around us always get opinions from people. The big question is how valuable are those opinions?

I can’t give a straight and definite answer to this question because of how diverse opinions are, and how varied the purpose and source of the opinion may be. So it all depends on so many factors.

I would like to focus on opinions about ourselves from people around us. When people make opinions of us, it could be genuine, it could be biased, it could be very helpful, and sometimes very damaging on us. That’s why I can’t overemphasize the importance of filtering out unhelpful opinions from the helpful ones.

People around us go through a lot of things on a daily basis, from emotional to physical to mental experiences and all these are part of what builds our opinion of others. We should never be too quick to consider every opinion thrown at us as true and neither should we be quick at discarding them. I believe that the credibility of the person giving an opinion is important, maybe you respect and admire the person as being qualified at giving helpful opinions.

The kind of relationship you have with the person too counts. Does this person dislike you? Does this person love you? Most times opinions from those who either love us so much or dislike us so much are usually biased because they either want to hurt us or they don’t want to hurt us by lying, as the case may be. But even though someone doesn’t like you, they can still give us valuable opinions, same applies to someone who loves us, you just have to use your instinct to determine someone with genuine intention from someone who is malicious.

A lot of times people get hurt and feel bad about themselves when they receive negative opinions from others. This is natural and expected, because we humans are social beings , we feed on our interactions with others and we tend to seek acceptance from the society. One thing I have come to realize over the years is that, even though people say bad things about me or negatively criticize me, that doesn’t necessarily mean that I am “faulty” , that doesn’t mean I am less than everyone else, that doesn’t mean my value is lower than theirs.

Opinions are simply what they are, opinions. They cannot be substituted for facts in all cases. So give yourself a break whenever someone gives you a negative feedback about yourself, because the things people say about you says a lot about them than it does about you, in most cases.  Always love yourself no matter what they say about you. No one deserves the power to make you sad or angry or helpless. You deserve to be happy no matter what, because we are all humans , far from perfect and the best we could ever get from life is happiness. Be happy always, do things that excite you and don’t dwell on people’s negativity, it won’t lead you anywhere.

Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you and appreciate you. Hold on a little longer. No one says anything comes easy in life, but it’s worth every effort you put into it. See you soon.

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Continuation of “My funny life as…”

If you haven’t read the first story, click here , this is the continuation of the story.

Growing up was a mix of so many life changing events, it wasn’t easy growing up, I learnt a lot of things along the way, I modified a lot of my perspective about life, changed friends, changed behaviors , more like a rollercoaster. This is what life is all about anyway. Survival of the fittest. I was an introvert, who had this social anxiety especially when I was with people I didn’t know, it takes me about less than an hour of interacting with someone to get comfortable because naturally I am fun to be with despite being the introvert.

Sometimes I get confused about whether I was an introvert or an extrovert because I tend to be very loud and outspoken sometimes and very reserved and quite some other times. Where do I stand? Anyway, I think I love the ambiguity because I don’t really want to be boxed into a category. I think I am just flexible, I can adapt to a wide range of situations.

I remember when I first entered the university with the typical naivety; I had to start reshaping my personality, discovering who I truly was. That was the first time I was ever going to be influenced by peer pressure. Throughout my high school days, I don’t really understand the effect of peer pressure, I had friends but I don’t get influenced by them, I do my things my way. Until I got admitted to the university, I started meeting people from around the nation, people with varying believes and perspective of life totally different from mine, I started getting influenced by them; it was the most difficult thing for me. Normally I used to see myself as someone who influences others for good, now it was the other way round. This went on for two years, until one day.

I realised I have been living the life of another man. I realised my journey was different from theirs, it was painful. I was swayed by the tide. As usual, I encouraged myself, that what won’t kill me would only make me stronger, I bounced back , and I was a better person.

I can’t write all the details here, its a very long story that should be written in a novel. Lol.

Morals of the story is this;
Whoever you are, however your personality may be, always accept yourself. Don’t try to modify yourself to conform to the society. You will never be happy if you aren’t living your life the way you are. Everyone is in pursuit of happiness , and if you aren’t doing what makes you happy, then you are missing out on an essential part of life. It doesn’t matter what they say about you, you can’t just satisfy everyone because you aren’t money. For better for worse, people will always complain. So just be yourself and surround yourself with like minds and those who appreciate you for who you are. Peace.

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My funny life as a little nerdic kid.

Nerds aren’t made, they are born!!! The same can be said of me. When I was a kid, I was this extremely curious and inquisitive child; my questions were always coming and inexhaustible. Everything around me must be probed, understood, dissected, and exposed. I was never satisfied with a simple answer, give me a simple answer and you will find me searching for more answers elsewhere, and then I throw back your answer at you with a contradictory evidence. Sounds crazy? Well that was me as a kid.

I have always had this scientifically oriented mind towards things, I performed experiments on my own without even knowing I was making inquiries, it just comes naturally to me. I remembered vividly when I tried mixing water and oil endlessly and got frustrated on the fact that I couldn’t understand why it didn’t mix. I also tied a chick inside a transparent nylon, only for me to come back and find it dead, reasons why I didn’t discover that moment. I questioned everything, I studied everything around me that I hardly notice people around me unless when called. I was also a funny child and I was brutally honest with my opinion, I say things just the way I see them without minding what others would feel about it; did I know what feelings were then?

I was also very sensitive, little things would make me cry; I was smarter than the average kid because when they beg me or pet me to stop crying I wouldn’t stop crying because I sensed the manipulation and asked myself why would I stop crying simply because you said sorry, that is not a fair trade!!! Even if I was bribed with biscuit, I will eat it and still continue to cry until I get distracted or my attention goes to something interesting.

I enjoyed watching animals, yes any animal from the birds to the cats, to the dogs , ants, chickens, snails, reptiles, I loved all animals. I always imagine how the world would be from their perspective and I always thought I could communicate with them. I loved water too, I enjoyed playing inside water , I never really looked forward to human contact as long as my environment is interesting enough to keep my brain busy. I never fought with any kid, only once. In fact I looked upon other kids with awe and deep curiosity, I watched how they played with one another instead of playing with them, that’s why I never approached them , I just observe them from afar silently taking note of every details of their interaction, and then I start asking questions from my parents or elder siblings concerning what I noticed that I didn’t understand. Lol.

When I started growing up , I began to realize some questions are quite difficult to answer and the answers I get from others aren’t quite satisfying. Questions like where did I come from? That actually got me thinking, I for once thought I was purged out of my mum’s mouth. How did I get to her “stomach” in the first place? Why did she swallow me? Where did she get me from before swallowing me up? I asked those questions when I see pregnant women and I was told it was a baby like me that was in their “stomach” 

I still remembered my first day in school, I was so sad and started crying that I would be left with people I don’t know, something I was experiencing for the first time. Anyway my educational performance in preschool and even primary school was just average and nothing spectacular. I didn’t take any interest in reading my books, just leave me to myself and let me wonder into my world of imagination. I would read newspapers as a kid, and was never really interested in what was being taught in school. I saw school learning as torture and some sort of punishment, but  I was just a normal kid upon everything.

One thing about me as a kid was that I never lied. My mum trusted me so much, I never lied to anyone. I was brutally honest and frank. And I was very sensitive to opinion. I never handled insults/reprimand well, it always got me depressed and laid back.
Oh how things have really changed about me over the years. In my next write up I would tell you how things have changed about me over the years. Till then.

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Why Does It Hurt So Much?

I’m hurt so bad, my fiancee left me for her best male friend. I don’t know why I couldn’t get over it.

My performance at working is depreciating, I can’t think straight, I get angry at anything. I feel like crying all the time.

Why does it hurt so much? I enjoyed every minute of our relationship, she was perfect, she was not a gold-digger because she is independent.

It has been 7months, its time enough to heal. I still tell people she is my fiancee because we still communicate but not about relationship.

I ended all communication last 2months but still I can’t stop thinking of her, I find if hard to sleep everynight, I tried asking others girls out but the zeal wasn’t there.

Why does it hurt so much?
DAVIYJONESS

Dee: It is normal to be hurt when someone you love leaves you, its normal to feel pain when you are left to yourself. It’s normal to be disappointed and heartbroken when someone does something you least expect. It’s perfectly normal, accepting this fact is the first step to moving on. To your question, the reason why it hurts so much is because you feel you have lost someone of very great value. Someone who apparently has more value to you than anyone else, perhaps even more than yourself. It hurt so much because you suddenly forgot along the way that she is human capable of disappointing, capable of making mistakes, capable of changing. You held her at such a great esteem that you lost touch of your own self esteem. While nurturing her, you forgot completely about yourself, and now she is gone, you feel you are also gone.

But, there is still hope. You can regain your self worth, you can regain your life back, you can take charge of your life by realising you also have great value. You have to tell yourself you are worthy. You have to tell yourself you are a good man who deserves a woman that can appreciate what is good. You have to help yourself by bring back your self worth. Look into the mirror and say to yourself things that are bold and encouraging, say to yourself in the mirror “you don’t deserve to be hurt this way! You deserve a good woman!! You deserve someone who can appreciate your great value!!! You shall not be sad!! Do it, it works like magic, its reasuring, it releases the tension. She left, its her loss not yours, another woman who will appreciate you will come your way.

No body has the right to take away your happiness, give another person the chance to change everything and don’t expect too much from anyone. Be ready for anything. Be strong because that’s what life is all about. Being strong in order to survive. Take care of yourself.

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It’s my birthday!!!

Some years back today, a great man was born and the earth experienced some phenomenal changes and it knew someone has arrived. It’s my birthday!!!! Celebrate with me!

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The truth about friendzone.

Guy: Score?
Girl: 62
Guy: Nice, What’s the cut off for Ur course?
Girl: 46
Guy: Congrats
Girl: Thanks baby
Guy: Hmmmm, So now am Ur baby? 😳
Girl: Yea
Guy: Can u explain how, so I don’t misinterpret u
Girl: Wat u are thinking is wat i mean
Guy: Tell me what I am thinking.
Girl: Whatever u are thinking is wat i mean
Guy: To me, Considering the way u used it, Someone you love , romantically
Girl: Lwkmd, U funny sha, I call everyone baby, am used to it
Guy: So what does baby mean, when u used it for me
Girl: Nothing just normal slang
Guy: So y did u say whatever I am thinking is what u mean
Girl: Lol, Ok thats wat i mean then
Guy: What do you mean?
Girl: Wat u mean, Is wat i mean
Guy: Do you mean that you love me romantically?
Girl: Lol, Yea
Guy: Are u serious? Are u sure its not just a crush?
Girl: Yea
Guy: Wow, I don’t believe u can be straightforward with me 🙂
Guy: I also feel the same way with u
Girl: Lol Just pulling ur legs since
Guy: 👍
Girl: Lwkmd ooo(laughing)
Guy: Same here too, Playing along 😉
Girl: Lol, U don’t love me? Wat if i was saying my mind, thats how u would have played along and later dump me?
Guy: What if I also said my mind, that’s how u would have been happy I love u while u don’t love me?
Girl: u are so hard to please
Guy: We’re u trying to please me with what u just did now?
Girl: u are just too pompous for my liking
Guy: What have I done now that shows I am pompous??
Girl: Forget oo

Did you see that? Let me explain what happened. The guy and the girl were having a normal conversation when the girl used the word “baby” on the guy for the first time. We all know this word is used for someone you consider close to your heart, or someone you love dearly, but she denied it with the aim of seeing his reaction and knowing what he feels. So the guy tries to understand what she means , but she did a little trick there, affirming whatever it is the guy is thinking so that he can confess what he is thinking to her; which he did; and she said yes. In this situation its the girl that has ended up making her feelings known first, because she said yes, this puts her in a position for the guy to say “sorry I don’t feel the same way”, and then the girl would have said “I was only joking” so she was playing it safe. And when the guy said yes he feels the same way, he could have meant it for real, and then the b**ch in the girl came out when she started laughing and saying she was just pulling his legs and calling him funny, so as to feed her ego of course, the smart guy turned the table around and said he was also playing along, and then the girl took it personal and started accusing him that he is going to play her and dumb her. This means the girl actually had feelings for him because if she didn’t, she wouldn’t have taken it personal. She was playing games with the guy, she was protecting her ego. She didn’t want to take the first move etc. At first it seems as if she has friendzoned him, but as things turned out, it doesn’t seem that way anymore.
At the end of the day, she is claiming the guy to be hers.  Anyway that was a real chat, and similar chats like that happens everyday.

Let’s get to the main: The truth about friendzoning is that, it exist and it doesn’t exist. It exist because almost every guy has experienced it and it doesn’t exist because sometimes being in the friendzone isn’t such a bad thing.

We live in a society where there is intense gender role. The males are expected to be assertive , strong, and actively  initiating. Every other males who aren’t assertive or initiating enough get friendzoned by the ladies he is romantically interested in. The truth is that, women don’t have it in mind to friendzone you right from the start, in fact they don’t even know what they want with you, right from the start. Women don’t really know what they want. You as the guy, would determine where you want to be in a woman’s life at the early stage by acting accordingly and she would have to decide whether she wants that with you or not(chances of her wanting what you want is high). Women don’t decide who they want by thinking or being rational, they decide by how you make them feel. If you make them feel at ease and comfortable and happy and light headed and friendly chit-chat etc, then they will start loving you as a friend, because that’s how you make them feel and that’s what they are giving you; friendship.  But even if you make them feel uneasy, uncomfortable, being risky with them, being confident, being carefree with them, though they could feel the romantic attractions to you but if you don’t tell them what you want is romantic relationship, they will just assume that’s how you are and nothing is ever going to happen. A woman can hardly ever bring herself into a romantic relationship with you if you don’t tell her that’s what you want, no matter what you do, no matter how attractive she finds you, except she is a cheerful giver, who gives without being asked, and don’t expect to find such women everywhere.

My point is this: A woman NEVER knows what she wants with you at the beginning of your interactions with her, the only things she knows is how you make her feel and what you tell her you want from her. So you have to be upfront and straightforward with her, show your self confidence and don’t be scared of rejection, because being rejected is far far better than being “friendzoned”, and don’t just go ahead to tell her your intentions right away, make sure at least you guys are getting along; but the moment she becomes too comfortable with you and starts doing things she does to her ” buddies” to you, then it would come as a shock to her when you tell her your intention, and then she tells you she is confused because she is now beginning to see you as a good friend with no intention of romance. So be quick with making your intentions known once you guys are getting along, because then she hasn’t really decided what she wants with you, so you are filling in the gap of a romantic relationship with her earlier before she puts you in her list of buddies.

It sounds crazy, I know, men already know if they want to be romantically involved with a woman at first sight, but that isn’t always the case with women, except you are a rich and famous guy that every girl is dying for, then you don’t need to be reading this. You can’t really blame them for being that way, its the way their brain has been wired.

Let me tell you a story, a Facebook friend of mine added me on BBM, although we don’t know each other in real life nor have we meet before, so we started chatting, after I saw her picture, I decided I was going to date her, we were really getting along , and on the third day I told her my intention, that I would like a romantic relationship with her, she was shocked because I was so fast , and it was really soon. This was what I did because I know women don’t know what they want and they make decisions based on how they feel, I made her feel that there was nothing unusual about it by telling her reasons why I like her that way.  She ended up deciding to date me, even though we have never met, even though she has never dated a guy without being friends with him(she told me) , even though she knows close to nothing about me, even though I didn’t really “work” to get her, she still accepted to date me despite the fact that some guys have been disturbing her for months to date her. Why did it happen like that? Because I was fast and straightforward, I wasn’t scared of rejection, I was ready for anything, and I didn’t care if she says no(of course you won’t tell her this, lol), and this she found attractive because it shows how confident I was and she was likely to say yes, considering the fact that I made it clear, what I wanted and I wasn’t ready to settle for anything less; which I also made clear. You see?

It isn’t that difficult. Just be confident and know what you want, let them know what you want, say it, be straight forward and direct, be assertive , be the initiating one, be fast, don’t wait for weeks. That’s what society demands. That’s how their brain has been wired, they only go for a guy who knows what he wants and isn’t scared to say it and act it, and a guy that won’t settle for anything less(just friends), if that isn’t what he wants. Don’t play games and don’t let them play you.

Let’s now talk about the good side of friendzone. Friendzoning is never good if you are sexually/romantically attracted to the woman, quit the friendship if its affecting you please. It’s only good when you are not sexually/romantically attracted to the woman, this way, it is easier for you and you have nothing to loss. You both would benefit a lot from such relationships. She can hook you up with babes, she can help you find out about any girl you like. She can even help you make a good impression on any girl you like by gossiping good about you to the girl or praising you in the girl’s presence, the benefits are endless. But don’t ever ask a third party to ask a girl out for you, it shows you don’t have a backbone, and no woman would find such a man attractive. Always go after her yourself, and let her reject you if she wants you. Don’t take it personal , it has nothing to do with you but with her. There would always be a better girl out there, don’t stop, keep trying. Enjoy life and don’t be put down by any event.

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Killing your Addiction to your Phone Effectively

Being in a computer age comes with all its ups and downs, life is now better than it used to be, considering the reduced mortality rate, computers replacing lots of manual works; advancement in communication mediums ,advancement in security, advancement in transportation medium and some other advantages of technology but at the same time, technology has its disadvantages on human lives, one of which I will be tackling today.

Almost everyone now has a smartphone which of course is one of the products of technology, we are all so addicted to our phone to the point that we can’t live a full day without checking up on our smartphones, it gets so frustrating when it starts interfering with our normal lives, we no longer pay attention to people around us, we no longer show interest in the things that interest us before in real life, we are always looking for something new online, we don’t  want to miss out on what’s going on online, we have created another world for ourselves in a virtual world that nothing else seems really important but our “e-lives”. This arising global problem makes it necessary for us to find a solution to curb it before it gets out of hand.
I searched through the Internet for ways of killing addiction to one’s smartphone, and I discovered a very effective way of doing so without having to completely shut oneself from one’s phone which I believe isn’t practical at this age. So what’s this I discovered, I discovered a wonderful application called ” QualityTime” as the name implies, this application ensures that one spends quality time doing other productive things while making sure that ones’ phone doesn’t get in the way. Its an android application , the iphone version also exist, so that covers majority of smartphone users. One can download it through play store for android phones or through itunes for iphones.

Here is how the application works:
Its advisable to install it into the internal memory of your phone, after installation and launching, you can decide to schedule quality time through the application , this is the period when you wont be able to use your smartphone for any other thing except the few applications you allow for that scheduled time. This would ensure that your phone doesn’t take your time during such periods, and you also get to do other productive things with your life without your phone controlling you.

Another thing the application does is to monitor the time spent using your phone and the time spent on each application on your phone and how long you spend using each of them, this way, you get to know which applications you are addicted to, and which ones you need to watch how often you use them so that you can spend more productive time living a real life in a real world . All in all being disciplined cant be over emphasized , you can’t leave it all to the application, you just have to be willing to break this addiction yourself and then this application would make the breaking process easier for you.
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The Pursuit of Happiness

We live in a world where everyone is always in pursuit of happiness, directly or indirectly. How do I mean? You probably came across this article when you searched google for “pursuit of happiness” obviously because you are looking for more ways to be happy, or perhaps someone told you about this site , telling you how fun some articles here on this site are, still because you don’t want to be bored  and ultimately this would make you happy; Virtually everything a man does is in pursuit of happiness.

When you go to the kitchen to prepare food, its because you are hungry and hunger doesn’t produce a nice feeling, you want to be happy and only food can make you happy at that moment, you prepare food in pursuit of happiness, you take your ATM card to an ATM to withdraw money so that you can get some stuffs for yourself and your family, that too is in pursuit of happiness because if you don’t do it, your wife would nag at you for not providing or maybe your children wont be happy and you too wont be happy, I can continue this way to give more examples of how everything we do is in pursuit of happiness.

How is this knowledge important?
First you need to realize that when you feel sad or bad about something its usually due to the fact that you have missed something that could make you happy, but the truth is that one can get happiness from anything and any activity, the problem arises when we put every element of importance and our source of happiness on a particular thing or activity, and whenever we fail to get it, it seems as if the world is coming to an end.

What is the use of everything I am saying?

Let me give a practical example, lets say after writing an examination  , you were aiming for at least 70% and when the result comes out, you got 69% , you become pained and sad because you believe scoring 70% means you are “good” and it also gets to have a positive effect on your GP and ultimately your happiness, do you know that it would be easier to get over the bad feeling of a “bad” result according to your “standard” by realizing  that because you have associated the score to your happiness, that’s why you aren’t happy, so by simply dissociating your happiness from your score, one can easily get over it. So how do you dissociate those two things ,by associating your happiness with something else, perhaps the fact that you are in school should be a source of happiness, or perhaps the fact that you are doing a good course should be a source of happiness or even perhaps the fact that you are still alive could also be a source of happiness. Easy, Isn’t it?

I will catch up with you next time.

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The Nigeria of my dream.

Nigeria is my country, the place where I was born, so I am obliged to contribute my quota to my country in whatever way I can. Although Nigeria isn’t a perfect country just like most other countries, we have our problems in Nigeria just like every country has his/her own problems.

I have a dream for Nigeria where our resources won’t be taken overseas for the selfish stomach of some bald headed, pot bellied and dumb witted politicians. I have a dream where people will contest for presidential positions for the betterment of Nigeria and not as a means of enriching their own life.

I have a dream for Nigeria where the masses would realise the power they have for change and not be brainwashed through religion. I have a dream where people would realise that their lackadaisical attitudes and start taking action; I have a dream where people with vision and good will for Nigeria won’t just be arm chair critics but start driving towards change.

I have a dream where Nigerians would realise how ingenious they are and start fending for themselves, I have a dream where intelligent people won’t be taken abroad to develop their own country but would be used here in Nigeria to develop our own country, I have a dream where our leaders would start putting importance on scientific endeavours and not just monetary endeavours, where our own people would start supporting each other and not letting us go outside our own country to utilise our ingenuity, I have that dream.

I have a dream for a better educational system, I have a dream where scientific experiments in high school labs won’t be monotonous again,where titration, separation techniques won’t be the only variant of things we do in the chemistry lab, and voltage resistor, density, lens, calibration, elasticity won’t be the only variant of things we do in physics lab and where drawing is what we basically do in biology lab. I look forward for the day where our scientific endeavours right from high school would be oriented towards solving Nigeria problems, like biodegradation experiments, energy from biomass, solar panel production, various sources of energy and practicals on how to produce them and actually producing them in schools; I have a dream where topics like “corruption” , “stereotyping” , and how it has crawled into the system and the damages its doing to our country with solutions would be taken as compulsory topics on their own in all secondary schools nationwide.

I have a dream where Medicine and surgery, pharmacy and law won’t be the only few courses in Nigeria that is considered to guarantee having a job. I have a dream where the government would provide job opportunities for all the courses taken at the tertiary level. I also have a dream where Nigerians would realise that entrepreneurship is very important and their success is in their own hands.

I have a dream where Nigeria would be beautiful in the eyes of her people, where people would no longer see the need to travel abroad to visit beautiful places, I have a dream for a beautiful Nigeria , a place of hidden treasures , a place of undiscovered attractions , I have a dream where every Nigerian would appreciate our own country and everyone be willing and able to contribute immensely to the development of the country.

I have a dream for a united Nigeria, a country deviant of tribalism and religious bigotry, I have a dream where Nigerians would stop being enemies of each other, where they would stop attacking each other in every form. I have a dream where every Nigerian would realise that a better Nigeria starts from deep within themselves and start making amendment to the way we think, the way we see each other.

I have a dream where Nigerians would start believing in themselves and acting accordingly, I have a dream where Nigerians would have a common goal which is to act for the betterment of every Nigerian.

Lastly I have a dream where the Nigerian reading this would realise my dreams aren’t far from being achieved if only you believe first, and then start taking actions towards achieving it. Nigeria is in your hands, yes YOU!

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Things you should never do while dating a Nigerian girl

Someone sent this to my email but wants to remain anonymous. What do you think?

I would not say I am a dating expert, but I can say I have learnt a lot from the dating world. Being in Nigeria and having dated some Nigerian girls, I have come up with some basic rules, even if you are a novice, follow this rules and you are good to go. All these rules applies if you are below 35 years old(below marriage age) or if you don’t plan on getting married any time soon.

1)Never, ever fall in love;
Yes you heard me right, you better shoot yourself in the head than fall in love, forget about the idea of love you see on TV or novels, here in Nigeria it doesn’t happen that way, if you fall in love, you are at the mercy of whoever you are in love with, although some girls are worth it, its just a very very small fraction of Nigerian girls that deserve that fairy tales types of love, a handful of them don’t value your love, even if you have money to spend on them, they would only love your money, you are nothing but a regular guy to them if its only love you have to offer them.
You think I am joking? I know a girl who has a boyfriend that she claims really love her and even willing to spend money on her, and yet she was willing to have sex with me just for the fun(yes, you heard me right) , I also know another girl who we both talk dirty to each other, even though there is a guy that really loves this girl, follows her everywhere, always ready to help her , always ready to go out of his way to please her, you know what this girl told me about him, that she feels he is a blood sucking leech.  😡 :-\ Seriously, some girls could really be bitches. I know you are imagining that these girls I am talking about are those loose and fun loving girls that don’t care, no, they are not, the one I just told you about is a very serious girl who is decent and doesn’t look anything like a heart breaker. Do not let emotions cloud your reasoning ,guys don’t fall in love.

2)Multiple date;
Yes , date plenty girls and be very smart, make sure none of them finds out, guys are polygamous in nature, act according to your nature, date as plenty girls as you can simultaneously and don’t take too much interest in any of them, the one you eventually fall in love with is the one that will end up breaking you into pieces. And please never attach your happiness to any girl, never attach your happiness to the amount of girls you can date, still do other things that interest you and do girls as a means of chilling out nothing more, don’t take anything personal, don’t take any girl special, if she quit, its her loss, you still continue to have fun, never beg any of them.  :-*

3)Make sure you are gaining something from them: Make sure they contribute their quota to the “dating”, anything at all, if they aren’t contributing to the relationship, they won’t value it, make sure the girl is trying to make the dating work and not just you alone, if she isn’t trying to make it work, you shouldn’t be bothered, that’s why you have a collection of girls to pick from , so it shouldn’t bother you one bit.  😡 Even if she says no sex before marriage, do things that are close to sex, and don’t take anything personal, never get attached to her because of anything special she does for you.

4)Expect anything at anytime:
Don’t ever get caught off guard , always be prepared for anything that happens, the girl might just quitat anytime without warning, don’t let it get to you, because you should know that most girls make decisions based in their emotional roller coaster, and emotions are like the whether, you can’t predict it , always be ready , always imagine the worse case scenario, are you ready for it? A girl who claims to love you so much at this very moment , could wake up tomorrow to realise she doesn’t love you again, yes it has happened to me times and times over again.  😉  :-*

5)Love yourself always;
No matter what a girl might say about you, it doesn’t determine who you really are, its all emotional manipulation, some girls are prone to using emotions to manipulate guys when they believe the guy can fall, no matter what she says, just know its nothing but her opinion and it has no relationship with the truth, a girl has told me I was heartless, uncaring, inconsiderate all of a sudden without prior offence, and even after I was the only person who asked after her health and being a gentle man to her, do you know how I reacted? I was totally cool and unaffected by her words, you know why? Because I know opinions aren’t always facts and two, because i know lots of girls use emotions to manipulate directly or indirectly, consciously or subconsciously. So I wasn’t even moved by her words at all, I was just saying “ok”, ” alright” and smiling, I wasnt even feeling bad or angry at all, that’s because I have total control of my emotions and I would never give anybody power over my emotions.

6)Always use you brain, be smart.

Be smart but try not to be too smart because not everything are the way they seems, you just have to thread carefully, always be at your best , no one says emotions are bad, but the more you intercept your emotions with your logic , the better for you. Don’t completely throw away your emotions , they are very useful and they tell you lots of things from your mind, but always be ready to analyze your emotions, be at peace with yourself. Your happiness is what matters most.

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Killing boredom effectively.

That feeling of boredom is so bad, I totally understand, it sometimes gets you to do things you would normally not do when you aren’t bored. Let me start by saying this , boredom is an emotion, which goes to say that, it means your mind is telling you something, what is my mind telling me when I am bored?

It could be that you aren’t finding fulfilment in whatever it is you are doing, it could also mean that you aren’t receiving enough stimuli to excite you, there are so many reasons why someone could get bored, whatever the reason, what we want to do now is to get out of the boredom.

There are so many ways to kill boredom, you could visit very active forums( example is nairaland.com)  of interest and start trolling, lol. You could visit a friend, you could prank someone you know, you could play games on your phone, or you play chess with someone if you can. You could visit the swimming pool, you could take a stroll out,you could bring up a topic and start arguing with a friend, you could hit the club, you could talk to a random person by asking them for an opinion, pretend as if you are carrying out a survey, you could read a book,you could watch a movie, gist with someone online, you could write a poem or even start drawing, you could learn a skill, take lessons , you could play with a pet, or sight see, you could just sit outside facing the sky, you could let your mind wander around, if you have no one to chat with visit 7cupsoftea.com to chat with a listener there is always someone there waiting to listen to you. There really are a lot of things you can do to kill boredom.

There was a time I was bored at my college, guess what I did? I just went out of my dorm, took a bike and explored places I havent been to within my college, and I wasn’t bored anymore. Just do something exciting, something different, something you probably haven’t done before, its as simple as that. See ya later.

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Managing Anger effectively

First of all, I wouldn’t call myself a psychologist or a psychotherapist but of recent I discovered a very important thing about this emotion called “anger”.

There is no general definition for an emotion so I would define it my way. Emotions are vectors of messages passed from the subconscious mind to the conscious mind, they are the mental manifestation of our state of mind.

Notice how I defined it , ” vectors of messages” meaning the message itself is from the subconscious mind which we do not have direct access to, so that means that our emotions carry the messages from our subconscious mind but how we react to this message is totally up to us(our consciousness) and has nothing to do with the emotion itself. Someone can get angry and just decide to wave the anger aside , just by acknowledging what his subconscious mind is trying to tell him.

When you get angry, its absolutely not necessary you act on the anger, knowing that you are angry as the only means your subconscious mind can pass across an information to you, so whenever you are angry you should know that someone has passed your boundary or someone has disappointed you, or someone has insulted you or someone has physically abused you, whatever the situation that provoked the anger in you, know that your anger is the only way your subconscious can tell you something and you really don’t need to act on it.

Another thing about this emotion is that, you are angry not because of what the other person/people did to you but because of either how you interpret someone’s action, or due to your predisposition to get angry, or due to your boundary being stepped or over stepped, and that’s because you have a boundary in the first place.

Anytime you see that you are getting angry, feel the way the anger is moving in, observe critically how you are feeling while angry, do not act, do not talk, just watch how your body reacts to it, question the anger, question the situation, question your feeling ask yourself why, ask yourself if the situation is worth expending your energy on, ask yourself if the person is worth being angry at. Then you would see how easy it is to suppress anger and not act out unnecessarily.

Also, anger can be directed into more productive things. You can do your work quickly out of anger, you can read a whole lots of school books for exam out of anger, always try to act on anger in productive ways.

Good luck.

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What PUA’s won’t tell you about ladies.

You have probably been searching the entire web on how to get ladies and get laid, you have probably read lots of books and theories online, but none seems to be working, they all have something in common, which is to present to you some complicated procedures and very difficult things to observe , like say, asking you to monitor her blinking rate , lmao… So outrageous, some even ask you to watch her body language, like if she is crossing her leg, if her body is facing you, if she is playing with her hair and all that. I have even read some that say when a man looks at a woman’s lips she would be sexually attracted to the man, like seriously?  Lmao…

Some would ask you never to face a lady while talking to her at first, some would ask you never to approach a woman from behind while she is walking, some would ask you to act disinterested, some would even make use of reverse psychology, and talk to her friend so that she would feel jealous and wanting of your attention.
What they all have in common is trying to make you do things you aren’t normally comfortable with.

Now what PUA’s (pick up artists) don’t tell you is this:
Love yourself.

Everything I would tell you concerning getting any girl of your choice falls into loving yourself. What I mean by loving yourself is that, you should appreciate who you are, you should like the kind of person you are because you can never change your core true self, although you  can fake it, to be like another person, you would never attract those you love because you don’t appreciate yourself.

No one is perfect, most people make the mistake of ignoring the good things about themselves and focusing on the down sides of their personalities. Everyone has their flaws, Beyonce who sang flawless has speckles all over her face, but she still love herself so much no one gives a damn about the freckles on her face. Whatever you focus on is what people would notice in you.

Now let’s get talking, over some years of trying out some few things I have learnt online about girls and all that, it was so tiring and frustrating, I knew there was something wrong somewhere, I was focusing on girls, I wasn’t focusing on myself, on loving myself, on liking who I am, and then I decided to forget all the crap I have learnt about ladies, I decided to take my attention away from them, I started focusing on things I love doing, I started doing my own thing, flaunting my abilities , girls started noticing , they started coming to me themselves, I couldn’t believe it, I didn’t quite understood what was going on, but I later got to realise that People love those who know their worth, you don’t have to stress it, give yourself a break, forget about girls, do what you love doing, they will come your way.

Another thing is that, girls are also humans like you, try to put yourself in their shoes a lot of time while you interact with them. Those techniques you learnt recently won’t work on every girl, it might even back fire and you end up frustrated and hating yourself.

The moment I stopped reading about how to attract girls and focusing on loving myself was the moment the true meaning of attraction became clearer.

All the best, to the guys out there, still trying to get their foot in the ground. You are not alone.

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Developing a consistent reading habit.

Are you schooling or you are at a stage in life when reading consistently is paramount? Do you have troubles reading consistently, are you a couch potato? You are not alone!

I was also like that not long ago, reading was so boring and tedious to me,I saw very little fun in it.

Actually, reading requires a lot of discipline and consistency. You need motivation, you need to keep reminding yourself why you are reading, your goals ,what you want to achieve. Yes , you need to be reminded constantly to be used to reading.

Let’s get to the point, there is an application on play store I want to recommend, that would monitor your reading, the subjects and topics you read, how frequently you read them and all that. This application is good because it makes you see your overall reading performance and where you need to give more attention based on how important each subject is to you.

The application is “Study” by “white sun apps” , every time you want to read, you would just launch the application and click on “Study” then you would create your subject and topic under the subject that you want to read, this would be saved, so when you want to read the topic, you would click on study, then select your subject then your topic, after which the time starts counting, once you are through reading ,you would click on finish, then it would ask you how many exercise you did and how many you got right, including how many writings you did. That would be recorded. So over time you can view the various graphs to see different aspect of your reading habits, this would definitely encourage you to read more, because you would know where you are lacking.

Below is a screen shot of the application

How to be a hacker.

Do you have a fascination to be a hacker? It feels amazing being able to control computers to do things you aren’t supposed to be able to do.

Actually hacking is a very broad term,we have those who specialize in hacking computers,some in hacking phones and devices,some specialize in hacking applications,some in tweaking softwares,some specialize in breaking into networks. The list goes on and on.

Hacking is the act of exploiting faults in the digital world. Everything in the digital world is made by humans ,and since humans aren’t perfect there would definitely be bugs and weaknesses in what they create, these bugs and weaknesses are what hackers exploit to their own advantage or to the advantage of a group of people or to the whole world.

We also have hackers based on their motivations,some hack for bad purposes (black hat hackers) ,some hack for good purposes(white hat hackers) while some hack for different reasons based on the situation(grey hat hackers)

There are so many things you need to learn to become an hacker,its a jungle in the cyber world.

To make things easier for those who have fascination for hacking,there is an application on Google play called “Hacking tutorials 2.0”(at the time of writing) it was created by “xeus” so just search for “hacking tutorials xeus” on Google play store.

Its an amazing application,it gives a step by step order into becoming a proficient hacker for those who are really serious about becoming hackers.

It has helped me a lot in the digital world,the amount of things I have learnt through the applications is numerous.

So what are you waiting for?

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Taking action against content theft.

The web is a very large community and content theft or copyright infringement is almost inevitable. Its painful when you take your time to write your own content and another person starts stealing it,and even making money out of your own sweat.

Fear not,there is a law now against it, and you can request for a take down, the DMCA(Digital Millennium Copyright Act) is a united state copyright law. You don’t even need to have copyright,the fact that the content, or video or picture is yours,you can request for it to be taken down. For a small amount of $10 per month,depending on your budget.

Visit their website for more information. See you soon.

The truth about guys every lady should know.

From a guy’s perspective. I am about to reveal to you, some things your boyfriend wouldn’t tell you.

I have noticed over the course of time,how unrealistic some girls/ladies could be when it comes to their expectations from guys.
Most lady wants a man who would think about them 24/7 ,who would call them every hour,text them every minutes,be with them everyday etc.

Let’s go straight to the crux of the matter.
Truths about an average guy :

1)Polygamous: If every guy could have it his way,he would rather have countless partners than settle with one,but because of traditions,society and beliefs we guys have been forced to act monogamous even though deep within us we are polygamous.

2)Sex: Sex means nothing but a way to release sexual tension for guys. Take it or leave it,that’s the fact,sex isn’t sacred to guys one bit. That doesnt mean we would be happy if our friend sleeps with our partner. Sex could mean a lot to an average lady/girlMo but to a guy it doesn’t carry much weight.

3)Love: 90% of guys that approach you telling you that they love you,are lying. Yes you heard me right. Most of them just want to get into your pant or just have fun. Don’t get me wrong,not all guys are like that,but majority are like that,especially guys who haven’t reached where they want to be in life. Please take note of this; don’t assume that every guy that approach you just wants to get into your pant. Some are genuine. The guys that don’t come at you strongly, that don’t start getting your head to spin from the start are likely to be genuine. But knowing a guy’s intention is very difficult ,unless he tells you himself.

4)Wife material: A lot of ladies believe men would marry only ladies that are well behaved, courteous, predictable, God fearing and all that. Well I am sorry to disappoint you, guys wants to wife ladies that aren’t too predictable,ladies that can have fun, ladies that aren’t too religious and serious,we would get bored to death. Note that guys have different taste,but no guy would want a boring wife.

5)Money: A man would find money as the first thing on his list as opposed to the general belief that sex is always on a guy’s mind. Its until a man makes enough money and get established before he would normally think about settling down with a wife.

I think that’s about all for now.
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What is love?

There is hardly a question that has bothered me as much as this question “what is love?”.
Different questions crosses my mind When I think about this elusive emotion called “love”.
Why do we love those who don’t love us back?
Why do those we don’t love,love us still.
What would make a mother kill her child When the mother’s love for her child is supposedly a powerful love?
What would make a lover detest his/her partner after previously loving him/her to the core?

Is love just an illusion?

Is love just a necessary emotion required for survival?

Although I might be limited in knowledge, from the things I have observed around me, I can say love is anything you make it. You can make yourself love anyone,but at times you find yourself loving those you didn’t plan to love.

There is an explanation for this,which tries to explain love with hormones, hormones like oxytocin,serotonin,dopamine and vasopressin. Although all these are theories that aren’t yet generally accepted.

What I believe is that love is all in the head. You can change how you feel towards someone, those times when it feels like its impossible to change feelings, that’s because you still don’t understand the mechanism of love.

Another thing about love is that,we love those we think are of higher value than we are,that’s why you find yourself loving someone that doesn’t love you,chances are that you feel that person has something of high worth.

In other to take control of your emotions, anytime you find yourself falling in love with someone, ask yourself “what characteristics of this person attract me?” Love always starts with attraction or let me call it lust,is it the person’s beauty,or personality,or wealth,or fame,or intelligence,that is the first trigger of love.

Once that trigger is pressed,the roller coaster of love starts,and your brain starts telling you,that you must go out with this person and make him or her yours. It’s a survival instinct, you naturally want to share your genes with someone of greater survival value.
What about guys that are more attracted to women with bigger butt and breast or bigger hips. Chances are these set of women are more fertile than the less curvy women,so its natural for men to be more attracted to these set of women.

That’s it. Love demystified.

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Women and their fish like behavior.

Note: this is not my personal opinion, I saw it on a forum, thought it was funny and true, have fun reading.

So some friends and I sat down to discuss the way a lot of women act and yeah we got past the whole calling females (in this case not all but a lot) “Fish brains”. Nah they ain’t fish brains, they just think like and act like fishes. It is somehow derogatory but seriously the we found some home truth.

Okay, how do you catch a fish? You bait a hook and send it down right? I ain’t talking about the casting net yet. Now a fish sees the hook, sees the line but cannot avoid the bait and it thinks it is smart enough to eat around the hook without getting caught (Fatal flaw)  that’s when it realizes it is headed for the surface and sure death. That’s how girls are even the seemingly intelligent and religious ones (I hope you realize that by “girls” I mean a huge number and not all right?) well they always love to want to think they are smart enough to go around hooks and never get caught and they can maneuver their way out without a scratch, we know better.

Another point is that the game of women is fishing not hunting. Okay, you can hunt for fish which in this case is a game for special fishes and not the normal ones(the problem is that too many normal girls think they are special). Forget the running after them, all you need is to fish and girls will willingly show up at your door. You know how? Show something around you off. Just throw it around a bit and keep at it. Look some will be fast to call you a jerk or a backside but those ones are the fastest to get caught .

Also “The best way to get a lady’s attention is to pay attention to everything around her except her.” Invoke that natural insecurity among girls that makes them doubt if they are good enough. It is very cool and cheeky and a good way of playing reverse psychology, look you might say only small boys play and you will rather go for a girl but what’s the fun in that?  that’s too easy na, it is more fun to play with their minds and heads. Most canivores play with their prey sometimes, enjoy it, dont bother. And when she thinks you are least into her, move in.

Okay have you seen a school of fish swim into a fishing net before? The get caught and more still swim into it. It is not like they are silly or gullible, it is fish nature and now, girl nature.  surround yourself with ladies and you will get more ladies. That is a trump card. The think like a fish nature of girls is true and here. No girl wants a guy no other girl wants. Look forget that she says she wants a guy with only her, she still wants others to find you attractive. That is what girls do, it is like a darned competition to them to “have” the one everyone else is interested in and so be envied which is why they continually brag about their man.

Oh all these points might be cool and all but one word gets it. Women are curious……. A lot more curious than men. I knew this a long time ago. The most powerful thing to get girls is curiosity. They want to know what it feels like to try something (Fish nature again ) dont make the mistake of putting all your chips down with a lady except you are a mind reader or extremely crazy person like Outlander. So make em curious, invoke this power and that girls will look for you. Her quest to know will be like a drug which will always bring her around and make her keep coming. Now this curiosity they feel is what most girls describe as “attraction” in most cases which they dont know their minds is just tricking them. A dark side which they want to know of is just cool and works like magic.

Now this leads me to a very important fact “Curiosity has gotten more girls laid than any other thing in history”

and oh all these won’t work if you have regard for people. For you to apply these, you must have killed the side of you that shows empathy and the side that takes pity on others. You must be willing to see girls as a price and not humans. You must be heartless and dark and with each one you take down, you lose another piece of your soul but it is fun 

Well what else can I say? Have fun people. The funny thing is that a lady will still read this and will fall for the same tactics barely 24 hours later, FISH NATURE

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How I recovered my stolen money with the Bible.

While I was still at a college,I left my room without locking my wardrobe, by the time i came back I went to Check my wardrobe inside my suit I couldn’t find my one week food allowance.  

I couldn’t believe my eyes. That time I was very religious.

Do you know What the thief did. He took the money from my suit and replaced it with fifty naira( as a way of saying Thanks for the money man,manage this change).

I was infuriated.

I asked a friend to remind me the part of the Bible that God was cursing the Galatians, So he showed me the chapter in the Bible,So I took the fifty naira and prayed out very loudly, that the person that took my money and replaced it with fifty naira,all the curse that God placed on the Galatians shall be the person’s portion until the money is returned back to me, everyone was in the room that time,So I took the fifty naira and placed it in between that chapter in Galatians.

That day didn’t pass that my money returned back to the exact place Where I kept my money.

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How superstition almost made me blind.

I went to buy food in a canteen,the woman that was selling the food was very flighty and rushy, So When she was about pouring stew into the yam, she threw some stew straight into my left eye. I started wailing,you know those kind of stew with extra ground chilli pepper(ata gungun),I started crying and shouting tapping my feet on the ground.

Guess What the woman did?

She opened a cold sachet water and poured it on my leg. 

I was still in pains ooo while she kept on pouring water on my leg.

Is this how silly superstition has made some people?

I dragged the water from her hand and poured it on my eyes.

Silly woman.

She wants to use her silly beliefs to make me blind.

Healthy human moods and how to control them.

Anger, joy, sorrow, fear, anxiety are a few of natural healthy human emotions which are induced mostly by external factors but sometimes originate from within the mind.

Let’s delve into what I have discovered about the natural human emotions and how someone can control them

Emotions to me are not induced by external factors directly but are determined by “meanings”.

Whatever meaning we attach to an event or situation would determine the kind of emotions we feel towards it.

Whenever you attach negativity towards an event(example being slapped) even though you are feeling the physical effects(pain) of it,how you feel about it solely lies on the meaning you attach to the event(being slapped).

What am I talking about?

What would make someone slap you? You believe the person is angry or irritated by you to make he/she slap you, that is when the slap brings remorse or even anger or sadness depending on whatever meaning the slapped person attached to it; but in the case of being slapped jokingly while laughing, or being slapped for whatever reason aside a negative reason,the slapped would feel happy or even excited.

So that’s it. Once you start feeling bad about an occurrence, remember it’s not directly because of what is happening but because of the meaning you attached to what is happening.

It might be difficult to alter the meaning attached to some events like the death of loved ones because the effects are usually permanent, but it becomes easier When you realise you feel sad because of the value you attached to the person you apparently lost. If you don’t value someone and the person dies you won’t feel much grieve as you would with someone you value much.

So that’s the basic of what am saying,your emotions are solely tied to meanings(values) you attached to an event. Change the meaning/value and your emotions changes with it radically.

How I killed my shyness.

Ok,while I was still at Bowen university,I was a very shy guy,not just shy to the opposite sex But shy to both sexes ,there was always something pushing me back from starting a conversation with someone I really wanted to talk to for the first time,its always like “I will say the wrong thing” “I will get laughed at” “they would see me as a strange fella” bla bla. Talking to girls on a casual level was even more difficult for me. I always feel like they are watching every step I take and counting on every word I speak, So I was always over conscious around them.

Until one day.

Things started taking a U turn for me..

It all stared during our departmental dinner night,although it was done during the day,till afternoon time Sha. Each department would schedule a day for their own dinner night,during my own department dinner night I couldn’t dance because I knew a lot of faces there and Ofcourse they would focus their eyes on me that “see this gentle boy ooo now dancing as If there is no tomorrow ” ,that day was somehow boring to me Sha,I didn’t dance. So I promised myself that I must dance,come What may ,in another department dinner night.

So I chose business administration department dinner night cos they had fresh and endowed babes there. So the party started,the most outgoing person was the first to come up stage and started dancing by himself,Soon others joined him,throughout those times I was planning how I would get up my sit without being noticed(silly me) . When I noticed that no one was looking at my side I just stood up like iroko tree still looking back to make sure no one was looking at me,then I started walking to the stage like a remote controlled robot.

I got on stage,everyone was dancing,I thought to myself, “no one is looking at me na,y am I shy?” So I started dancing the 1980’s dance  Lol,So I watched how some guys were dancing then I imitated their dance steps. I rocked girls that day ooo,I lost count of the amount of girls I rocked that day, Soon I discovered I wasn’t shy anymore.

“OMG I can’t believe this”
“Am I actually dancing among crowds in front of the audience ”
“Wow am not shy again”
“I feel like Superman”
“Let me rescue the shy ones”

In my mind I was feeling So great,at last I killed my shyness. So i graced the opportunity to bring up the shy girls to the stage. Not in my widest dream did I see myself bringing up girls to dance on stage. The shyness vanished completely, it felt like I was never shy afterall.

Wait a second…….

I think I was never shy afterall…….

That was the shocking revelation.

It was that day I realised no one is Really shy. Those who think they are shy haven’t just overstepped their comfort zone,once you push your limits,once you do something you think you would never do,it is then you would realise you are not shy afterall. There are no shy people in this world,But they are people who haven’t left their comfort zone.

Leave your comfort zone,it may be difficult at first just focus your mind that you can’t afford to be shy again,and you would be amazed with the things that you would do out of boldness.

Is anything real?

  

Hello everyone,I came across an interesting video on youtube and decided to share with you his(Vsauce) words.

Where are your fingers?  It’s a pretty simple question.  You should be able to answer it but, how do you know?  How does anyone know anything?  You might say, “Well, I know where my fingers are.  I’m looking right at them, or I can touch them I can feel them the right here.”

Your senses are a great way to learn things.  In fact, we have way more than the usual five senses we talk about.  For instance your kinesthetic sense … your “proprioception”, which is the ability to sense the position and location and orientation and movement of the body and its parts. This is what the police evaluate during a field sobriety test.  It allows you to tell where your fingers and arms and head and legs and your body are, all in relation to each other without having to look or touch other things.

We have way more than five senses.  We have at least twice as many, and then some, but they’re not all perfect.  We deal with optical illusions, audio illusions, temperature sensation illusions, even tactile illusions.

How do you know if anything is real?

The philosophy of knowledge, which is the study of “knowing” is called “Epistomology”, the theory of knowledge, especially with regard to its methods, validity, and scope. Epistemology is the investigation of what distinguishes justified belief from opinion.

Plato famously said that the things we know, the things that are true that we believe, and that we have justification for believing.  Those justifications might be irrational or they might be rational. They might be based on proof, but don’t get too confident because “proven” is not a synonym for “true”.

There are things that we can know without needing proof, without needing to even leave the house.  Things that we can know as true by reason alone.  These are things that we “know”.  An example would be the statement, “All bachelors are unmarried.”  We “know” that all bachelors are unmarried because that’s how we define the word, “bachelor.”  Of course, you have to know what the words, “bachelor” and “unmarried” mean in the first place.

But, how do you know?  How do you know where knowledge is biologically in the brain?  What are our memories made out of?  Research has shown that memories don’t exist in the brain in single locations.  What we call “memory” is likely made up of many Different complex relationships all over the brain between lots of brain cells … neurons. Science shows that when one neuron stimulates another neuron repeatedly, that signal can be enhanced over time, wiring them even more strongly together, and that connection can last a long time, even an entire lifetime.  As this relationship strengthens over time, it creates “memory” or, something you’ve “memorized.”

How Do You Know if Anything is Real?

The world IS real, right?  That’s a difficult question.  It’s not rocket science.  Instead, it’s like asking whether or not rocket scientists even existed in the first place. What we always thought was true, might not be.  Will we ever know “reality”, or are we stuck in a world there the best we can do is be “approximately” true, discovering more and more useful theories every day but never actually reaching true objective actual reality.

Can science or reason ever prove convincingly that your friends and YouTube videos and your fingers actually exist beyond your mind?  That you don’t just live inside the matrix?  No.  Your mind is all that you have. You are alone in your own brain, which technically makes it impossible to prove that anything else exists.  It’s called “egocentric predicament”.

Everything you know about the world out there depends on, and is created inside your brain.  The world is filtered through our senses and bodies.  It’s the only information we can get. Or, you can exist in a world where you believe that only YOU exist and everything else in the universe area all figments of your mind.  This is called  is called “solipsism”.

There is no way to convince a solipsist that the outside world is real, and there is no way to convince someone who doubts that the universe wasn’t created just three seconds ago, along with all of our memories.  It’s a frightening realization that we don’t always know how to deal with.

There’s even something known as “The Matrix Defense.”  In 2002, a woman shot and killed her landlady.  She argued that she believed she was in the matrix that her crimes were not real.  By using The Matrix Defense, she was found “not guilty by reason of insanity,” because the opposite view is just way more healthy and common.  It’s called “realism.”

Realism is the belief that the outside world exists independently of your own mind.  Rocks and stars and chairs and tables would continue to exist even if you weren’t around to experience them.  But you cannot KNOW that realism is true.  All you can do is believe.

It’s like the cat, who doesn’t understand the sound the the keyboard makes when you are typing.  Yet, the cat knows that keyboards are a fun place to be, it’s a great way to get our attention, and cats love to get their scent on everything, to make their mark in their existence in the universe.  We aren’t that much different from the cat, except instead of keyboards we have the mysteries of the universe.

We will never be able to understand all of these mysteries.  We will never be able to ever answer every single question.  But walking around in those questions, exploring, is fun and it feels good.

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Life in chess.

Chess,as you already know is one of the best and oldest strategic board games and it has been around Since 6 A.D,Yes It’s as old as that.

This is my best game,it requires everything I love using Which is: strategy and tactic.

At first When you begin to learn chess,it seems kind of simple and plain and a bit boring, every move you make is like a random guess because you still haven’t started seeing possibilities in the game.

But as time goes on,as you begin to lose in this game,your brain starts getting excited to learn more about the game,you start realizing the powers of each piece,you begin to like certain pieces and hate some you don’t really know how to use. At other times you realise your beliefs of some pieces are wrong when you start discovering how powerful they are through their use, by an experienced chess player. That’s exactly how life is.

As you begin to experience things in life,you begin to have certain opinions about some set of people,you begin to underestimate and overestimate some people,until otherwise proved wrong.

Chess to me is life on a piece of board.

In case you are wondering,my best chess piece is the Knight

I love using Knight because it says a lot about me. Knights are unconventional, unpredictable, cunny and very flexible. They can launch surprise attacks at the least expected times,thats me! 😄 I get told more often than not that I am full of surprises, That’s why I always feel at ease using the Knight. I also like using the queen,but mostly in combination with the Knight and rook. Those three used together by me can create magic. 😜

The least piece I like is the Bishop,I just don’t feel that piece,although It’s powerful when used well,I usually involve it earlier to dispose them,If I am to trade pieces I rather trade my Bishop, although I don’t underestimate them,I just don’t like the piece.

Coming up soon: my strategies in the game of chess.

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Destroying your computer system with a simple batch virus.

What you are about to learn here is very dangerous to your computer system,and you accept the responsibility of whatever happens to your system after carrying it out.

Maybe you are angry with your computer system,or your system is frustrating you, you might be thinking of a way to destroy your system by wiping everything on the memory, But ofcourse your system would “die” once a crucial file important for the operation of your system is wiped,this is one of a million ways for destroying you computer system.

Let’s go———>

Open your notepad application and type the following;

del *.*

Then save this text file as any_name.bat (batch file) example save as completewiper.bat
del means to delete, * means any name before “.” and the second * means any name after “.” so this means that any file with any name and any extension that the  .bat file encounters would be deleted, and before you know What’s happening,it encounters a crucial system files and deletes it also,rendering your system useless.

Only way to revive your system is to reinstall your OS.

Please don’t use this against someone else computer, be responsible. You can use on your own computer or another person’s computer after asking for permission and telling them What It’s all about.
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“Hardship” genes inherited from your predecessors is in you.

 
 
     
        Hardship gene inherited from your predecessor.
        Brainydaps
        How amazing could this get? Inheriting the gene that makes you survive hardship from your predecessors.
     
 
 

I came across an article on a website that really caught my attention, So I decided to share it with you

The body physiological response to hardship could be inherited(I.e you could inherit genes that were produced due to the hardship your predecessors went through).

This conclusion was made after an experiment was performed on worms(Caenorhabditis elegans)

The worms were starved from their early development stage,but not to the point of death Ofcourse,and upon studying their genes,They noticed small amount of RNA were produced in their genes Which focused on genes responsible for nutrition. 😱.

So here is the shocker, down the generational line,the second generation of the worm to be specific, the starvation induced RNA were found in the offsprings, Which means the RNA was inherited. Wow.

It was also noticed that the worms had longer life span. And They could possibly endure starvation more efficiently than their parents.

Although the genetic mechanism for this inheritance is yet to be discovered.

So how is this important to we humans?

Yes It’s important,because this experiment was carried out to know If It’s even possible to inherit environment induced genes,now that the possibility has been confirmed, it has potential implications to we humans.

Do the hardship our fore-fathers went through still in our blood?
Are we more equipped to endure hardship than our fore-fathers?
Possible.
What do you think?
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Google acquires nine robotics companies.

     
        Google acquires nine robotic companies.
        Brainydaps.
        These are the nine robotic companies Google acquired and what they intend on doing with them.
 

How true is it that Google has acquired up to nine robotics companies?

From the sources I have here, it seems Google has acquired nine robotics specialized in different essential areas required of a versatile robot.

Schaft: The highest scoring robotic company at the 2013 DARPA’s robotic challenge has been acquired by Google and confirmed from DARPA website (source)
Schaft, the Japanese robotics company focuses on humanoid robots and They claim to use sophisticated biped walking algorithm which enables their robots to even walk on uneven grounds without falling,even If you kick them,They won’t fall.(let that robot taste the force of my kick first 😝). Wow it seems Google is interested in making stable robots and not staggering metals 😉

Meka robotics: based in San Francisco and focused also in humanoid robots,They are specialized in making dexterous robot arms, human safe robots,force controlled compliant actuation and mechatronic engineering, basically They focus on humanoid robot with good manipulation and control of the hand,So you see Google is interested in making handy robots 😀

Industrial perception . This robotics company based in California focuses more on automation, They develop high technology that enable robots to analyse their environment with 3D vision,equipped with sensors. It’s more than what I can describe here. But basically They focus on robots senses,being able to analyse objects in the environment, to calculate the amount of pressure required to grip an object and the exact orientation in space without colliding with other objects, hmmmm,Google really means this robot business and Google doesn’t want a grumpy robot (source)

Boston dynamics:  This company based in Waltham focuses on building complex robots that are capable of doing more than what is expected at this level of advancement, at least according to them (source),They have a team of reliable scientists and engineer working together to push the limits of technology. They have succeeded in making some robots capable of doing impressive things like running on rough terrains,climbing vertical surfaces,altering their shapes to pass through tight spaces. Wow. 😱That’s impressive. Google really want to amaze us with an impressive robots capable of achieving feats through this company.

Redwood robotics: Based in sans Francisco, is a joint venture between Meka,willow garage,SRI international, They focus on making inexpensive robot arms,that are simple to program,inexpensive and safe to operate among humans (source)

Bot & Dolly: This company focus on robotics, automation,motion control,film making and design,making robots that are impressive in precise and expressive control,used in 6-axis industrial robots(source). I have a feeling Google wants to venture into film making inin the future.

Holomni: The omnidirectional robot wheel maker based in California has been acquired by Google, So it seems They want a robot whose movements are not limited.
Deep sight:  They also acquired an artificial intelligence company based in London,focusing on machine learning and system neuroscience,I can only guess Google would transform android OS to an AI OS in future to be installed on their stable,handy,precise,versatile, and mobile humanoid robot in the near future.(source)

I believe google would still acquire more robotics company, probably the company that focus on human like skin production,So the robot can have the feeling of a real human, (my speculation).

Thanks for reading,I hope to see you again.